I am disgusted! I have read too many stories and postings from people who have MS and their spouse or girlfriend/boyfriend walked out and left them. I just can't understand how another human being could be so cold. It's more disheartening to me for a spouse to do this. I can not understand how someone could walk away from their wife or husband simply because they were diagnosed with MS. I have personally spoken to a few fellow MS friends. One man was married for 23 years. He had just been diagnosed within the past year. He hadn't been hit too hard from MS yet and was still working and caring for himself with little help from his wife. One day he went out with friends. He came home and his wife of 23 years was gone and left him a note. YES just a note! She said she was gone and never coming back. She even told him that their grown kids didn't know where she was either. This broke my heart. I just couldn't believe that someone you love and have spent 23 years of your life with could be so cold, hateful and the lowest form of a human being. When did someone's health become a reason to love or not love?
What happened to the vows we take when we marry? I know mine said....to love honor and cherish through sickness and health! How can someone stop loving and caring for their spouse because they are sick? In my opinion anyone that walks away from their spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend because they got sick is a selfish disgusting piece of crap! What makes some people think this is expectable? I cant imagine that that their friends actually agree with them or would even stand by them. This is morally one of the worst things a person could do to their spouse!
Sadly this is not the only time I have heard this from a fellow MS friend. I was raised with morals, values and compassion. My first marriage was a disaster but if he had gotten sick I would have stayed. Granted I would have to keep my sister away from him....since she had sex with him!!! Plus I am not sure he would have still had have his "manhood"! That's the price he would have to pay! Lol man my standards were low back then!
So what are your thoughts on this topic? Has this happened to you or someone you know? I want to hear about it. I want to start a nonprofit for people with MS. When my husband gets all the $$ from his former employer for distorting his lungs! There are several things I want to do. One of them is having a section of the website for single people with MS or any other disability to find friends in your area and maybe love! I haven't come up with a name for my website/nonprofit for MS. I think all all these ideas when I am trying to sleep! Or I guess as I toss and turn!
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I had a better day today. I hope you all have a wonderful blessed day. Thank you for reading my blog and my life stories.
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Christine
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