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One of my favorite picture of my son
My sons biological father wanly in our lives. My sweet son had abandonment issues because of this. After a failed marriage my son was desperately wanting his father to be a part of his life. I always encouraged my son to write him letters if he wanted or needed. I would mail them to his mothers house. I would always read just to make sure he wasn't being rude because he was angry. He never was. He would always beg him to call him for his birthday or Christmas instead of a present. It still breaks my heart to this day. Sadly he never called him. When he was 9 he met his father for the first time. After a few months he was served with child support papers and left the state. He did see or speak to his son for 7 years. I was having trouble with my son and his father wanted to be a "dad". That lasted a few days and my son came home from Michigan. He did have a wonderful time meeting his new family including a younger 1/2 sister. His father never spoke to him after he left that day 5 years ago. he will not even friend him on Facebook. He didn't even tell him when his grandmother passed away. Which my son found out 2 years later and was very upset.
My son has a relationship with a few aunts and 1 older 1/2 sister. This morning my sons auntie called him to tell him his father was diagnosed with cancer. Without a second thought to all the pain and abandonment he has my son immediately called his father. I am so proud of my son. He has such a loving, kind heart. Even though I do not think his father will ever deserve my sons love for everything he has done. I will keep that to myself and all of you. I did say a prayer for him. I think more for my son.

I hope you have a blessed day. Make the most of it! Don't forget to smile!

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Christine
Linda Brown
5/16/2013 03:47:39 am

Your son is an amazing young man! Despite his father's abandonment, you raised your son to love him. May God bless you, your son, & his father.

~ Linda

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